I am doing something unorthodox today here on The Bipolar Writer. I hope that I have created a place where my fellow mental health sufferers can have a “safe place” to discuss their own issues. I often get emails from many who are seeking help or guidance or just want to talk about things. I want everyone who comes to this blog to know that if you are suicidal there is always someone here, I am always here to talk.
The unorthodox part is that today I am going to give my number to my followers if you are suicidal and you don’t want to reach out to help-lines (I have learned recently that they are not always great.) So, if you need to chat you can text me anytime. I will get back to you as soon as humanly possible. As a mental health advocate and someone who has been through the worst parts of mental illness alone, I want you to know I am a lifeline.
831-287-4369
You are not alone. Suicide is not the answer. Again, I am always here to talk anytime.
Always Keep Fighting
James
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I am still raising money so that my blog can reach more people through the WordPress Business level. This blog is partially funded with my own money, but it takes a lot to take The Bipolar Writer to the next level. It means the content on this blog can reach more people and help end the stigma of mental illness. If you can please donate! It means the world to the contributors, followers and of course The Bipolar Writer.
https://www.gofundme.com/rasing-to-upgrade-the-bipolar-writer-blog
That’s the sweetest. Being introverted I find even those text message ones scary.
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It can be. I am very introverted as well but I want people to know there is hope out there and people who care.
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❤
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If you ever need anything let me know.
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I will!
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I think that’s really brave and awesome of you to do.
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I appreciate that Steph. I do what I can because it is why I am here.
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I kind of want to follow your lead and leave my number buy I’m only conflicted because I would hate for someone to harass me. That’s paranoia but it is also real.
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That’s a good point. I thought long about it, and for me it is worth it if it helps people.
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Very generous of you. I hope you’ll be safe.
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Thank you, and I will.
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💜
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I only found this blog accidentally, but I’m glad I did. Thanks for the reminder to keep going!
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I am glad you found my blog accidentally. Always keep going and. Always keep fighting.
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Major props!!! You’re amazing! What you just did may end up saving someone’s life and that’s a beautiful thing in this mental health community. I’m so inspired by your courage to put yourself out there like you have. Did I tell you that you’re amazing? This made me literally tear up. So great, just great… wow. ❤️❤️❤️
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I am glad you feel that way, if I could help save one person than it is worth putting myself out there in the world.
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What an incredibly kind and selfless thing to do – I have so much respect for your James :O) x
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It is not necessary but appreciate your kind words.
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It might be worth adding the caveat that you’ll respond as soon as you are able to, since no one person is going to be able to respond immediately 24/7. That should be implied, but when it comes to suicide it’s probably worth being explicit.
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Good point! I will make that change.
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Wow! That is very brave and selfless, I’m sure you would be a great comfort to someone needing support. Thanks for putting yourself out there!
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I don’t consider it brave but a necessary thing. If I am truly to seek out and help people who are suicidal, one of my major goals of my blog and memoir, then I must put myself out there. Thank you for your kind words!
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Pretty incredible that you are willing to share your contact and be a resource for others, very cool. I hope you also have the support you need 🙂
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I do. I want to be able to be there for those who are dealing with suicidal thoughts. I have been there and barley survived. I know what it means to go through that alone and it is not a great feeling.
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This is such a great thing! I must say you that I also suffer from Bipolar disorder and I also write about depression and I motivate and I hope that I inspire people. Can you please tell me your mail?
Peace be with you
Mimi
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My email?
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yes 🙂
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it is in my contact, but it is jamesedgarskye22@gmail.com
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Oh yep, sorry bro. I am new on WordPress. Thank you.
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God bless you for that.
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This is very generous and brave.
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Thank you.
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That’s amazing that you did that. I wish I had it last week. Definitely made some stupid self-harm decisions then..
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I am sorry to hear. Relapses into self-harm is very common. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You will fight these thoughts. Let me know if you need someone to talk to, I am always here.
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It’s highly Brave of you I would never be able to at least not right now
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I can understand that, if you ever need help let me know.
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Thank you so much
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You’re the greatest, Love your website
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You will save many by doing this! I pray that God continues to watch over you and continually gives you the strength, wisdom and courage to be that bridge of support that people need! Sending many hugs your way! #support #team #encouragement
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Thank you got your prayers. If you ever need me I am here s
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This is a really big thing James. I am brand new to your blog, but just reading the comment thread I can tell you have built a community of trust here. So much respect!
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That is the hope, to keep building a great community that people can relate to, thank you for stopping by on my blog.
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You are most welcome James! 🙂
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(((heart)))
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James, you are an earth angel!! Simply beautiful!! ❤️
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I really do appreciate that, I am here on this earth for a reason, and it’s important to pay it forward.
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My goodness, you are truly one of the greats. Please know that.I am humbled and feel hope for humanity when I come across angels like you in our world. Love and light. xo
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Thank you. That means the world to me. I know I am here for a reason, that is to help others like myself. It’s good to bring so light into this world.
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Yes, you are here for a reason. And you count more than you know. We are all worthy of comfort and love. And it warms my heart to see you give it so freely. Thank you for that.
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Very generous of you . We need more people like you. Keep up the good work.
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Thank you. I will.
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I used to have a lot of suicidal thoughts, more than I do now, so I know how hopeless things can seem. A few years ago I called the suicide hotline and was put on hold for twenty minutes before I hung up. I was shocked. So this is a great thing you’re doing. Much respect.
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That is part of the reason I am doing this, many people have commented on the ineffectiveness of the suicide hotline.
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I continue to be impressed by your passion to help others. Thank you for all you are doing.
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Thank you. That is why I am here. I am very passionate about helping others
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Wow I’m truly touched by your gesture and openness to share your personal contact. I’m all the way in Malaysia, and it’s so comforting to know someone from the other side of the world is there for me whenever need arises. Thank you thank you. 🙏🏻
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I am glad that I can be here.
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How amazing. Thank you for being a part of the solution ❤️
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This is incredible of you to do! I know this will help many people!
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Just trying to do my part.
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Wow! There are no words to describe what you are doing. It’s an extremely kind gesture and I am at aw. Keep up the good work!
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Thank you.
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I see you very actively supporting my blog, would you be interested in contributing? This was so brave of you to give out your number like this, and caring
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It is rare to see courage and kindness together as one. Well done!
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Thank you.
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You’re welcome!
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This is amazing. We need more people like you!
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Wow. This is amazing. Thanks for being a source of hope or connection for others
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That is wonderful! I’d love to hear more about your experience with the hotlines though. That is worrying if we are referring clients to seek them but their experience is not great takes away from the benefits of that service. Thank you!
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Wonderful blog, it is wonderful how you are open to being there for people in need.
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Thank you.
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Just a note that the link doesn’t work. You’d need to use https://www.gofundme.com/rasing-to-upgrade-the-bipolar-writer-blog instead. The link with /manage/ only works if you’re an admin of the campaign 🙂
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Okay thank you. Good to know.
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