Too Close To Home

Okay, so I wasn’t going to write anything about the pandemic. However, I’m in the middle of a very personal experience with COVID-19. I knew I’d be a little bit paranoid about this virus – especially because I work with the public. I never imagined my fear would actually come true. I haven’t gotten my test results yet, but I want to share our story thus far.

On Monday, March 16th, my 7-year-old daughter developed a cough. At first, I assumed it was her asthma cough since she was running around outside. However, the cough had gotten more persistent and deep by Tuesday. Tuesday night, at 11:30 pm, she spiked a fever of 104.2. We made a Dr. appointment the next day. I wanted her to be tested because, it turns out, we’ve been exposed to the virus via 3 positive cases at my brother’s work. He also just flew to NYC a few weeks ago and was in 3 different airports (Pittsburgh, NYC, and Dallas). The Dr. refused to test her and I had to force her to at least test for the flu.

When I left the Dr.’s office, I called the department of health to see if we could get tested without the Dr.’s referral. They put me on a mandatory 14 day quarantine and said I needed to go get her tested. I called a testing site in Pittsburgh, who told me they wouldn’t test her because her fever had broke. Fine. We’ll just finish the quarantine. But, by Thursday night, she was taking 40 breaths a minute, which is twice the norm. Her pulse was 107, which is 20 beats per minute faster than norm. And her cough was even worse.

We went to the emergency room at UPMC Northwest at 2 am on Friday, March 20th. The triage nurse didn’t warn the hospital that a possible COVID-19 case was coming in, so they sat us in the waiting room where we put our germs on the chairs. They had me use the check-in kiosk, so that my germs were on the screen. They had me sign a paper with a pen that all other patients use. They took us to a room that wasn’t set up for the virus. They weren’t wearing proper PPE. However, they did take good care of my daughter. Turns out, she developed pneumonia from whatever virus she has. The hospital wouldn’t test her. They sent us home with a note saying that the Wolfe Center would contact us about a test.

I waited a week for a call, and it never came. I waited so long because I’d already been told by a testing site that they won’t test unless all of the symptoms are present at that time. Well, I started to cough on that Friday (March 20th) we went to the hospital. And, a week later, it hadn’t gotten better. I was short of breath and I was wheezing. But I didn’t have a fever, so I didn’t try to get tested.

By Sunday, March 29th, I decided that I wanted to try one more time to get tested. I decided to call Meadville Medical Center. They decided to test me because of the exposure I had, the symptoms I had, and the symptoms my daughter had. Even though I didn’t have a fever. That’s exactly what should have been done to begin with. Not everyone shows the same symptoms. Turns out, I did have a fever when I went to the testing site, and my pulse was 125. My lungs sounded “junky”. They stuck the test swab so far in my nose it felt like they were scraping my brain. It is terrible. The results will be in sometime in the next 72 hours – 2 weeks, depending how backed up the lab facilities are.

Throughout these 14 days, I’ve been on a roller coaster of emotions. Not only do I have to deal with the fact that I have no income right now, but I don’t know when I’m returning to work, and I still don’t know if I have the virus. I had to deal with the panic of watching my daughter struggle to breathe and hear her coughing 24/7 and have her temperature be 104.2 for 24 hours. It was terrifying and I live alone and am quarantined, so I went through all of it by myself. I started having trouble sleeping. I lost my appetite. All while being sick with whatever I have. It’s been tough. Let’s not forget, I’m bipolar, and this is definitely a stresser. I have been on top of my mental symptoms and went back on my anxiety and sleeping meds for the time being.

I’m here to say that, maybe we shouldn’t be panicking about the pandemic, but we most certainly should be taking it seriously. If this is what I have, it is no joke. People who have any kind of respiratory issues (we have asthma) are at a higher risk, and it’s no fun watching someone you love struggle to breathe. Even if you will be fine if you catch this virus, your vulnerable family member or friend may not be. Please take this seriously, stay home, and fight for your right to get tested if you have reason to believe you have symptoms or exposure.

46 thoughts on “Too Close To Home

  1. Wow, that’s a cautionary tale, not for the public but for our health care system. We need more testing kits! Hope you will put a donation button on your site in case people can chip in to help with your financial crisis. Take care, Rebecca

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    • My daughter is pretty much back to normal. Full of energy and spunk lol. I am still only on day 2 of antibiotics, so I’m not seeing a lot of improvement yet. I am still awaiting the results of the test…hopefully tomorrow is the day I get the call.


    • Thanks for taking the time to read about it and reach out. I’m starting to feel a little better. The antibiotics seem to be reaching my lungs finally. I hope you and yours stay safe and healthy. ❤

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  2. I’m just an hour away from you in Ohio and it’s the same issue here. If your symptoms aren’t the right ones when you go in, they don’t test. It sounds as though you were at least treated well and are on the mend. I work in healthcare and over the past couple months we’ve had a lot of people treated for bronchitis and pneumonia. Most of us believe the coronas have already been circulating for some time and these are the standard diagnoses physicians have been giving. I think the most severe cases require more particular treatments, which is why less severe cases don’t get tested, but unfortunately it skews the statistics and the media uses the data to make exciting headlines and scare the crap out of the general population. If only high risk or severely ill people get tested, then it stands to reason more of those individuals will have severe complications or die. Yes, it can be serious, but it’s usually not serious. This year in the US alone over 20,000 people have died from the flu and that’s with a vaccine. Annually about 500,000 die of the flu worldwide. The government should be screaming at people to get flu shots every year, but they don’t. That said, I have a daughter with asthma and it is definitely scary when your child can’t breathe. I’m also a single parent and understand the stress of everything weighing on your shoulders. Have faith and try not to get too discouraged, there’s a lot of people in your shoes right now and more help available than usual. Enjoy your daughter as much as you can while you’re off. She’s at a great age.


    • Thank you ❤ I am starting to get better. Today is day 3 of antibiotics. I still haven't gotten the test results, but whether positive or negative, we are okay! I just really need to get well enough to be okayed to go back to work.


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  4. What a harrowing experience. The process is just as scary as the virus, even more in some cases. I’m glad your daughter is getting better and I’m hoping you will continue to improve. So sorry you’ve had to experience this.

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  5. I’m praying for your quick recovery. Thank the Lord your daughter is doing better. We have a family member who has been having a similar experience. She has been exposed to someone who had the virus and her symptoms have been vomiting, diarrhea and pneumonia, but because she hasn’t been running a fever, they won’t test her. She continues to have a tightness in her chest that doesn’t seem to go away after several weeks of being sick, but her doctor won’t see her; he told her to go to the clinic and the clinic won’t see her either because of her breathing problems. My sister-in-law (the one who is sick) said her neighbor told her she knew 3 or 4 people who had the same experience. God help us.

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