*This post is a combination of processing and asking for input from my fellow bloggers and readers.*
Today my boss came up to me asking if we could have a chat. My heart sank a little bit thinking I was in trouble but I wasn’t. She brought up how I project my work to others, how I often times don’t give myself any credit.
This came up because yesterday we had to introduce ourselves during a meeting and I identified myself as my supervisor’s right-hand woman instead of my title. I often don’t say my title, which is the Development and Program Marketing Specialist, I usually say I do communications or that I help my supervisor.
I’m not good at talking about myself or making myself sound important. I think it’s a combination of years of low self-esteem, the idea that nobody cares what I have to say and not thinking I am important. So when somebody asks what I do, I brush it off saying, “I do our Facebook” then drop it.
In reality I do a lot more than schedule Facebook posts.
My boss said she wants me to be confident in my position, work and skills. She told me I am more than my supervisor’s right-hand woman, that I am my own independent, functioning person.
I was not expecting that conversation at all.
In all honesty, I don’t feel important at work. I think that anybody could do my job so, to me, what I write, create and do isn’t special. I felt that at my last job too, I compared my writing to my fellow reporters too often.
I come for 40 hours a week and do what I’m told. I recently had to do two marketing campaigns, one for a day camp and the other for volunteer training. I gave no ideas for anything, I asked my superiors what they wanted and I did just that.
Damn, this is turning into an entire in depth self evaluation that I was not expecting to have today.
The moment our conversation ended I thought, “I need to see my therapist.”
What about you guys? Do you have trouble talking about yourself or do you have confidence in doing that? How does your self-esteem effect your work?Become a Patron!https://c6.patreon.com/becomePatronButton.bundle.js